I think that love is something almost unreacheable these days. It is not represented as usual, with flowers, love cards, love songs. Today, people demand more from love and the problem is that love can't afford everything we want; at least, not to me.
The point here is that love doesn't consist only of feelings and good will as most people believe. It is very complex to reach, what I called ''Love Stability'', beacuse I always want more or less from someone. The question is: If this situation happens, are you with the right person? Or, when the other person wants more and more, and you actually don't want anything, are you a bad person? I don't think so ...
It is simply like this: Love formula doesn't work out and your final result is : ERROR!! There is nothing you can do. This can happen a lot of times. The issue comes when you find yourself in the situation of choosing consecutively the wrong ones; when you see how your relationships start and how they finish so fast...
Remember: Love can't be the result of lies (usually, lies to ourselves). Please, if you see the ERROR in your formula, give up ! Don't lose time :)
That's why I consider myself for the moment a Love Grinch: totally sceptical about love.
Men come and go ... but love just comes once and I really want to be impressed by him.